3 Things You Need to Do to Become a Woman of Power

3 Things You Need to Do to Become a Woman of Power

By Shawnna Jocelyn

I was not always in control. I spent years depending on a man, not realizing that I had the strength and power to stand on my own. I didn’t have my own mind—I let others make decisions for me, and I followed rather than led. But after getting married and then feeling like I was losing some semblance of control in my own life, I knew something had to change. I had to step up and take ownership of my journey.

One of the most defining moments of my transformation was when I challenged the Atlanta school system to live up to their commitment to the kids. It was in that fight for justice that I truly found my voice. I became an advocate for children and a force for change, realizing that power wasn’t just about control—it was about impact. Here are the three things I did to become a woman of power, and how you can do the same.

1. Find Your Voice and Use It Fearlessly

For years, I kept my thoughts and opinions to myself, afraid of rocking the boat. But I learned that power comes when you are willing to speak up, even when your voice shakes. When I started advocating for children in the school system, I realized that my voice mattered. I learned to articulate my concerns, demand action, and stand firm in my beliefs. If you want to be a woman of power, you must claim your voice. Speak up for yourself, for others, and for what is right. Your words have the power to bring change.

2. Stop Relying on Others for Your Stability

I used to believe that security came from someone else—whether it was a husband, a job, or a system that was supposed to take care of me. But the truth is, real power comes when you create your own stability. I started making independent financial decisions, setting personal goals, and developing skills that made me self-sufficient. Whether it’s through education, career growth, or financial independence, taking control of your own life is one of the most powerful things you can do.

3. Take Bold Action and Stand for Something Bigger Than Yourself

The moment I started advocating for children in Atlanta’s school system, I realized that true power isn’t just about personal success—it’s about making an impact. I challenged the system, held leaders accountable, and fought for what I knew was right. That experience not only changed the lives of the children I was fighting for, but it changed me. Power is not about how much authority you have—it’s about the difference you make. If you want to be a woman of power, find a cause bigger than yourself and pour your energy into it.

Final Thoughts

Becoming a woman of power isn’t about having control over others—it’s about having control over yourself. It’s about using your voice, standing on your own, and making an impact in the world. I was once afraid to lead, but now I stand boldly in my purpose, knowing that my power lies in my ability to uplift others. If you want to step into your power, start today—find your voice, take control of your future, and stand for something bigger than yourself. That is how you truly change the world.